Our Mission Statement
Our group's sole purpose is to help individuals achieve their most
desired and cherished personal goals. It could be anything from
learning how to play the piano to climbing Mt. Everest.
Our intent is to also provide the special tools needed to help you be
more competent at whatever it is that you want or need to
accomplish in life. (Competence is defined as: being expert and
skillful with no major errors.)
Ben Kugler, CEO & Founder
“A man is as alive as he has hopes and dreams. He’s alive as that. And he’s as dead as he can’t have any hopes and dreams.
“What is a dream? Here you’re into goals. What’s the definition of a goal? A goal is just a postulated future condition.
“Now, if he can’t arrive at any postulated (an intended decision) future condition, he won’t have any goals. He won’t have any dreams. (1)
OUR TEAM
Ben Kugler
Founder, CEO, Author, Speaker, Compatibility Specialist, Business Consultant
Drew Johnston
Business Consultant, Compatibility Specialist
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Our Service
Optimum Goal Finding & Goal Achievement
This is the group that helps individuals achieve their personal goals; those objectives that are most important to the individual. It could be anything from learning how to play the piano to climbing Mt. Everest.
This is for individuals 16 to 100 + years old who want to achieve their Unrealized Personal Goals.
This journey starts with:
A. You're given a coach whose job it is to see that you find and achieve your prioritized goals in a timely fashion.
B. You're provided a Game of Life Checklist. It’s a long checklist in which one peruses the main categories of one’s life and circles their areas of greatest interest.
C. The next step is to Prioritize all of your unrealized interests by circling them. Once this is done the and the top five prioritized interests are selected and put in their order of priority;
D. A Correct Estimation of Effort program is devised to achieve the intended goal. This 7-step program is very specific and has “drop-dead” dates for each doingness line item.
Note; Determining and achieving one’s goals in life is perhaps one of the best true therapies that life has to offer. Doing so, can significantly raise a person’s emotional tone level. Our specialty of finding and achieving one’s Goals in Life helps resolve failed purposes of the past.
It can help eliminate depression and even eliminate the need for medication… Pursuing and achieving one’s dreams can almost revive the dead.
We’re especially interested in helping Retirees achieve their unrealized goals.
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The introductory price is $750.00. This includes all of the materials and 5 hours of coaching, At the end of the 5-hour period additional coaching can be purchased at the rate of $150.00 per hour with a 2 hour minimum purchase.
Reflections on One’s Goals
“Ask for it and ye shall be given,
Seek and ye shall find,
Knock and it shall be opened.”
~~ Sermon on the Mount ~~ The New Testament
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“When he’s young, he dreams dreams—big, vast dreams about what he’s going to do in the world. ...
“Somehow or other, his drive, urge in this direction, becomes blunted. ...
“A man ceases to postulate (decide) desirable futures, in other words, ceases to dream, in direct ratio that the physical 4 universe has proven itself antipathetic (showing a feeling of strong dislike)toward him and that other life forms have proven themselves antipathetic toward him.
“In other words, he ceases to dream and postulate large, vast, desirable survival goals just in the ratio that he begins to drop away from the purest purpose of life.” (1)
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“Happiness is the overcoming of obstacles toward a not unknowable goal. But much more important than that, which is a philosophic observation, let’s look at this: If you don’t postulate (decide) a future, you haven’t got one. You’ve got as much future as you’ve postulated. And it’s as long as you’ve postulated.” (2)
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“He has been agreeing to this motion, agreeing to this space, agreeing to this time, until he doesn’t feel he can create anything anymore and so he just goes on agreeing and agreeing.
“And how sick can he get? Just take at random a strata through the society and pick up your real sick ones and what do you find? He has agreed almost 100 percent. How do you know he’s agreed 100 percent? Because he has no more illusions of his own. He has no more hopes, he has no more dreams, he’s a sick guy...
“And the more thoroughly he has agreed with the material universe, the worse he’s going to be. That’s horrible, isn’t it? (3)
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“You’ll find that an individual in life is as alert and awake and happy as he has dreams and goals. He’s got as much future as he has postulated (decided) goals for the future. He doesn’t 5 have any more future than that.
“Therefore, if a man is as alive as he has hopes and dreams, he certainly would be as alive as he has a future. That so? He’s as alive as he has hopes, dreams, goals.” (4)
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When a person has goals and dreams, he’s merely expressing this one fact: He can change his role in the game. He is expressing his confidence that he can change his role in the game. You see that? And the manifestation of it is goals and dreams.” (5)
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“You could say, then, life would be livable at the speed a person had decided it was livable at. Got that? Life is livable at a safe speed or life is livable at an optimum randomity* or life is livable so long as one’s randomity did not become less than or greater than what he thought was comfortable.” (6)
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The Cause of Aging
“The way an individual ages, the way he dies, is to give up his power of observation and his power of decision, and acts on the basis that he cannot do as much as he used to be able to do, he can't stand as much as he used to be able to stand. And he attributes this to advancing age. He never attributes it to being able to stand less. “The source of advancing age is being able to stand less. Advancing age is not the cause of being able to stand less. “In other words, aging is caused by a lessening ability to confront action. That is all. It's not because the person can't, but he merely ages because he believes that he can't.” (7)
Thank you for visiting with us. We look forward to talking with you in a scheduled appointment by your going to Calendly.com/BenKugler or by calling 813-330-8700.
(1) Excerpted from the lecture: Conquest of the Physical Universe delivered on 14 August
1951. This can be found in the Special Course In Human Evaluation.
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(3) Excerpted from the lecture: Be, Have and Do, Part I delivered on 14 November 1952. This can be found in the Source Of Life Energy.
(4) Excerpted from the lecture: A Talk on Beingness Processing delivered on 15 March 1954. This can be found in the 4th American ACC—Self-Determined Beingness
(5) Excerpted from the lecture: Games delivered on 29 December 1954. This can be found in The
Unification Congress.
(6) Classic lecture “Randomity” (13 December 1956)
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- Excerpted from the lecture: A Rundown on Opening Procedure and Review of 8-C delivered on 25 March 1954. This can be found in the 4th American ACC—Self-Determined Beingness.
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